Only individuals can relate; personalities cannot.
Personalities are like shadows. They cannot meet, they cannot merge, because
they don't exist. Personalities are fake. That's why in the whole world people
are talking of love, but there is no love. They are talking of friendship, but
there is no friendship -- even talking of trust. But for that a tremendously
powerful individuality is needed. Personalities cannot trust; they are always
afraid -- afraid that their reality may be exposed, may be known. As far as my
people are concerned, there is no problem; it is not a question of fighting for
individuality. I declare you individuals, so your individuality is not a
problem -- that you have to protect it. You can mix and merge, you can be
friends, you can be lovers. You can work together; you can work under each
other without any fear because you have dropped the personality, which was
always afraid. Now you have individuality, a solid rock which is fearless.
OshO |
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