Why are you worried? The real question has to be: Am I friendly
to people? Do you know what friendship is? It is the highest form of love. In
love, some lust is bound to be there; in friendship, all lust disappears. In
friendship nothing gross remains; it becomes absolutely subtle. It is not a
question of using the other, it is not even a question of needing the other, it
is a question of sharing. You have too much and you would like to share. And
whosoever is ready to share your joy with you, your dance, your song, you will
be grateful to him, you will feel obliged. Not that he is obliged to you, not
that he should feel thankful to you because you have given so much to him. A
friend never thinks in that way. A friend always feels grateful to those people
who allow him to love them, to give them whatsoever he has got.
OshO |
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